https://www.oegod.com/ 請問大神 Fri, 05 Jun 2026 01:17:12 +0000 En hourly 1 https://www.oegod.com/ https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C 我的兒子，二十來歲了家務麼都不願意做，連照顧自己都不懂，只是做自己喜歡的事，自私自利，奢侈浪費，父母提一句話都不喜歡，怎麼辦呢？長此下去他以後怎樣生活呢？ 看他好像很多節目，返工很長時間，假期又不待在家，很晚才回來。他好像表面風光，但是他都活得不開心，沒有方向，沒有目標。這是社會現象嗎？有解決的方法嗎？我為人父母很擔心！請幫忙，幫忙！ 謝謝你們。 Sat, 06 Mar 2021 11:55:04 +0000 家庭及人際關係 guest@oegod.com (匿名 匿名) https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10532 https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10532 狂妄.懶散,無心向學,自以為是,自私自利.漫無目標.唔聽勸告,呢種人好難同佢講道理,談論人生,更唔會有耐性聽你講前途. 不過佢在社會謀生,基本的學識:中英文,算術是最低限度的要求.中學畢業文憑可能受到接受一些訓練,從初级助理做起.如果讀完大學,好多標青啲嘅人一開始就係助理經理,亦大把機會可晉陞到總經理,董事甚至董事總經理職務年薪數千萬亦有可能. 現在佢已經牛歸馬大.好自恃自己巳經認識社會,識得做人.半句忠告都聽唔入耳.父母擔心又有甚麼用呢.這種情形在較富裕的社會好普遍. 建議你维持同佢友好.溝通.理解佢.總有機會佢會向親人訴苦,求助.那時,你可以把自已的辦法提出.叫佢考慮一下.慢慢有咗互動.有商有量.你就已經幫緊佢. 但千祈唔好將養老及傍身用的經濟资金交他.否則.一齊輸晒時,佢養你唔到.飯碗一定要自保.不可心軟. 呢種唔肯讀書求上進,一味志大才疏的少年.青年,壯年如果唔肯努力脚踏實地謀生.大隻廣,大隻講,將來好彩揾到個好老婆.仍可混混噩噩過世.嘅.否則,可能成日週身唔得掂.你只有,最多帶埋佢上快餐店開飯. 當然,好多人墮落到一定程度會反弹.到時,你乜都唔聲,救下佢,好多機會可以幫浪子回頭嘅. 關心佢.用愛心精神上支持佢.會係有效方法. Mon, 08 Mar 2021 18:51:09 +0000 家庭及人際關係 guest@oegod.com (匿名 匿名) https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10532 https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10533 https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10533 你最多只會擔心5-10年 25-30 歲佢做左人爸爸 佢會變得 成熟.................... 問題吾會維持 2) 但你要話下佢, 吾可以由佢鐘意點都得 必須要理家人感受 付一部份責任 ( 為家出力 ) Tue, 26 Jan 2021 08:43:09 +0000 家庭及人際關係 guest@oegod.com (匿名 匿名) https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10533 https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10534 https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10534 強勢的父母會造就弱勢的子女。自己不做家務會沒飯吃、沒乾淨衣服穿，你的兒子會這樣過日子嗎？ 他已是成人，父母再擔心也只能在背後提點。是你覺得他活得不開心，沒有方向，沒有目標。這是不是他自己的感覺? 放開手讓他自己飛，你會發現他並不是你所想像的。 Tue, 23 Feb 2021 06:43:09 +0000 家庭及人際關係 guest@oegod.com (匿名 匿名) https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10534 https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10535 https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10535 其實你有冇同你個仔溝通過呢個問題,傾過計呢?你好似好唔了解你個仔咁 Sat, 02 Jan 2021 19:41:09 +0000 家庭及人際關係 guest@oegod.com (匿名 匿名) https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10535 https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10536 https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10536 跟他談談吧，雖然我現在年紀還很小但是我個人認為談一談會有幫助 (不要凶，要好好跟他講) 請他站在為人父母的立場想一想，已經二十多了得要學會懂得為別人也為自己著想。 Thu, 21 Jan 2021 17:36:09 +0000 家庭及人際關係 guest@oegod.com (匿名 匿名) https://www.oegod.com/question/%E7%8F%BE%E5%9C%A8%E5%B9%B4%E9%9D%92%E4%B8%80%E4%BB%A3%E7%9A%84%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C#answer-10536